Is my inner labia too big?

This is a question we see often on the web.  The answer is, most likely not.  As a rule of thumb, if when you spread you labia from left to right, as long as the distance from your left lip to your right lip is somewhere under 4 inches, you have nothing to worry about from us.  Now some guys do favor smaller inner labia.  I remember when I was younger I did favor the smaller lips as I found the larger ones just a bit too much for me to appreciate. As I got older, I quickly developed a taste for the larger side of things. I’m not sure if many other guys go though the same process as I did, but I’m guessing a fair number do.

I do wonder why we do not see as much concern from girls regarding the size of say, their breasts being too large or their nipples being too round or too protruding.  Of course we see much more attention being paid to breasts if they are too small. Perhaps there is so much fear because the inner labia is a very private part and girls don’t see too many other labia for comparison.  Or even worse, they pick up a copy of Playboy and compare themselves to those girls that seems to be handpicked to have smaller than normal labia.  Interesting that girls get so upset with Playboy presenting a woman with large breast and a small ass and call it unrealistic while totally missing the point that they are presenting an abnormally expectation of what average labia resembles.

Fact is not to many guys even notice or care about the inner labia.  Far too much concern is being put on this little part.  Our best political incorrect advice that we can give you and please note, that politically incorrect advice is the best your ever going to get.  And that advice is to focus on the size of you body first.  If you are 10 pounds overweight or more, then worry about that.  Being proud of your body in the rant you hear from the feel good people on TV i.e. “This is my body and I’m proud of it”, is not good advice. Ladies, men care about your ass.  Men do not care about your shoes or your purse.  Line up 10 women. 9 with fat asses and $1,000 purses and 1 with a great ass and a $10 purse, guess who is going to get all the attention.  Line up 10 woman, 9 with fat asses that are proud to be fat, and 1 woman with a great ass that thinks she is fat and guess who the crowd favorite is going to be?  Line up 10 woman, 9 with fat asses and small labia and 1 with a great ass and large labia and guess which one will be the fan favorite.  Now, for all of you girls out that are already of ideal body weight, ok, if you don’t have anything left to worry about then lets talk.  I would say never get them worked on unless you have a large imbalance.  i.e. one side a lot larger than the other side.  In that case, I can see surgery is a good idea if the imbalance really bothers you.  Otherwise, I think this is one of the only true cases where you should be very proud of what nature has bestowed on you.  Wear your labia with pride, large and small alike.